Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Today, I'm a bit of a rambling man...

I've been out of this blogging game for a while now.  Life is busy, and writing took a backseat.  I'm back, bitches!  Well, at least for today.  See, it's that time of year that I get really annoyed, and I can't help but say something.  I'd go to Twitter, but 140 characters just won't suffice.  I might need 160 characters for this post.  Here we go...



Ferguson Unrest.  Rioting is stupid.  I think it is dumb when fans of sports teams do it.  I think it is dumb when political protesters do it.  I think it is dumb when white people do it, and I think it is dumb when black people do it.  If you don't like an outcome, don't ruin your own damn neighborhood or town.  Don't use your disagreement as an excuse to cause some trouble.  Use that anger in a positive manner.  Start a charity.  Set up a benefit.  Create a video or write a blog.  Channel that energy in a positive direction, because you will get way more bang for your buck.  Burning businesses and looting is just a chickenshit response, and you not only lose the respect of the community at large, you don't truly honor the memory of Michael Brown.  
All of that being said, racism DOES exist.  Whether or not race played a part in the killing of Michael Brown, an unarmed black teenager by a white Ferguson police officer, Darren Wilson, we will never really know.  But, what all of this has shown me is that racism is still alive.  Look at any comment section on any story about this death.  It will sicken you.  I want to live in a world where we don't see color.  I want to live in a world where we are all treated equal.  Unfortunately, race is here, and it is a constant.  To quote Jon Stewart, "You're tired of hearing about it? Imagine how f--ing exhausting it is living it."


"War on Christmas".  I call it a Christmas tree.  I don't care what you call it.  If you want to call it a holiday tree, please do.  If you prefer to say Happy Holidays, I'm fine with that, too!  There is NO WAR ON CHRISTMAS!  There are radio stations that play Christmas music 24/7 starting in November.  Department stores inundate us with Christmas commercials and merchandise starting pretty much right after Halloween.  Television channels are showing Elf, Christmas Vacation and The Santa Clause on repeat already.  Can we please stop this nonsensical claim that there is a war on Christmas?  YOU celebrate whatever you want.  I'll celebrate what I want.  If you have enough time on your hands to get upset over how I extend pleasantries this time of year, I have a ton of data entry I need done, and a laundry list of projects around my house.  I will gladly help you put that time to a much better use. 



Just a few ramblings from my mind today.  Perhaps you'll see more of me in the future.  Perhaps you don't want to.  Perhaps I don't care.  I'm kidding, of course I care.  I'm just saying...

Monday, June 3, 2013

Dining al fresco, it's not always what you hope for...

This past Saturday was absolutely gorgeous.  In fact, it may have been a bit too humid.  Nichole and I had a bus full of patrons for the Saturday installment of the Maine Beer Tours brewery crawl, and we finished up around 4:00 in the afternoon.  As we normally do, we had some errands to run, and decided we wanted a quick bite to eat somewhere in town.  Sitting outdoors was a must, and we decided to give West End Deli a try.  Good sandwiches, quaint neighborhood, and outdoor seating made it an easy decision.  We found a parking spot right across the street, ordered up our sandwiches and claimed one of the two outdoor tables as our own.  While we really enjoy living in our small town of New Gloucester, you just don't have this sort of setting there.  Things are looking good so far!

Remember how in the last sentence I said things were looking good so far?  Yeah, that changed, and pretty quickly!  I'm about three bites into my sandwich, and I see what appears to be a rather intoxicated lad stumbling down the sidewalk toward us.  He is all over the sidewalk, carrying on a pretty intense conversation with himself, and clearly not a fan of buttons, as his less than slender belly is desperately trying to escape from behind his shirt.  I quickly suggest to Nichole to keep her head down and continue eating, hopefully he will just pass on by.  While that thought sounded so good in my head, it was not even a remote possibility in reality.  As the gentleman gets close to our table, you can't help but see his toothless grin just light up the sidewalk.  We are screwed, aren't we?

The next 40 minutes are filled with our three toothed friend Roy happily repeating himself over and over again, rambling on about how he has made bad decisions, and how much he really likes us.  A sample sentence would sound something like this: "So I say to myself, self, I'm crazier than hell."  I was offered a sip of vodka from his backpack a solid half dozen times, and was even offered some meth.  While both offers were extremely enticing, all I really wanted was my sandwich, which was getting cold, and not nearly as appetizing at this point.  Next thing we know, Roy is reaching into his pocket and pulling out cash.  He wants to buy our dinner.  The very same dinner we had already paid for, and just really wanted to eat, without Repeat Roy standing over us.  We tell him not to worry about it, it's all set.  Not wanting to listen, which I think is mostly in part to being so drunk his ears stopped working, he insists on paying the tip.  He tosses $4.00 down onto the table.  We beg for him to take his money back, he refuses to listen (I'm serious, drunk ears, it's a real thing).

At this point, it is clear that Nichole and I are just too nice to ask him to leave, and the conversation continues.  For some strange reason, we tell him that Nichole is pregnant (if you didn't know, and just found out from reading this, yeah, we're having a baby!).  Ol' Roy lights up with excitement.  You would think he is a long lost uncle or something, he's just so happy for us.  He reaches back into his pocket and pulls out a $20.00, and tosses it onto our table.  "Open a bank account for that little one.  I made some bad choices, but I want you to open a bank account for him or her, do the right thing".  We beg him to take back his money, but he will not listen.  Six or eight times he tells us to open a bank account.  I see him look at Nichole's belly, and he reaches back into his pocket.  We are sassing him at this point, please stop!  He pulls out $10.00 more dollars, and throws it on the table.  For those keeping score, that's $34.00 on the table.  Sorry, I spoke too soon.  He looks back at the belly and reaches in for more cash.  Please, don't give us more cash!  Boom, $10.00 more on the table.  $44.00 in total.  From a drunk.  What the heck do we do?!

We feel dirty, we feel bad, we are confused.  What the heck just happened?!  We beg for him to take his money back, and he just won't hear it.  He insists that we open a bank account for the baby, and "do the right thing".  Realizing that the only way to end this craziness is to leave, we collect our half eaten sandwiches and get up and walk toward the car.  Several more attempts to give back the money are unsuccessful.  Ol' Roy even tries to get Nichole to add some of his vodka to her ice tea.  We watch him stumble away, scratching our heads.  What just happened?  We climb into the car and drive off laughing.  That sort of thing seems to find us, no matter where we are.  Moral of the story?  If a drunk offers you $44.00 to open a bank account for your baby, honor his wishes.  He may have lived a life of bad decisions, and this could be the karma he needs to make his life feel complete.  We are going to the bank this afternoon to honor his wish.  Oh, and maybe dining al fresco in the West End, on a late Saturday afternoon wasn't the best idea after all.  I'm just saying...

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Post election thoughts, as I struggle to stay awake...

What a crazy past couple of months this has been.  Nichole announced her intention to run for the Maine House of Representatives back in the spring, we launched Maine Beer Tours back in late summer, and we are already very busy people.  It's been a whirlwind year.  Now that the election is behind us, I may have a moment or two to reflect and plan a path ahead for 2013.  Until then, I just want to spend a couple of minutes climbing up on a soap box, so, yeah, enjoy.

First of all, Nichole's election didn't go as we had hoped.  Let's be honest, Democrats don't often win in our district.  It's also very difficult to beat an incumbent.  The odds were definitely stacked against her, but that didn't stop her, not even for a second.  That amazing wife of mine worked her tail off, knocked on doors, attended events, and shook more hands than I could possibly count.  Her body would ache, her sleep schedule was thrown way out of whack, and every spare minute she had was filled.  Despite the many reasons to get discouraged or distracted, she never lost her smile, her determination, or her drive.  Words don't even begin to describe how proud I am of her.  She would have been an amazing representative for the people of New Gloucester, Durham and Lisbon, but now was not her time.  Have no fear, we'll keep all of those signs in a safe place, we haven't heard the last of her just yet.

As for the presidential race, American decided that 4 more years of President Obama sounded better than even a day from Mitt Romney.  Now, it's very clear that we are a divided nation.  With a very close to 50/50 split, President Obama squeaked out a victory.  I've already seen a number of people going on and on about how America will now implode, or that the administration is coming to your house to take everything you have, or that every small business will now close.  Guys, come on.  I know that people like attention, or like to be dramatic, but slow down a second.  For all of you out there that are calling the president a Marxist or Socialist, or whatever other ridiculous name you have for him, can I point out that many Democrats think he has been too moderate.  I get that many of you don't agree with his policies.  I didn't agree with many of Bush's policies, I understand.  That said, wishing for failure from this president, or refusing to work with him, or doing everything in your power to make him look bad does nothing to further us as a country.  If he fails, we fail.  If he succeeds, we succeed.  We need to put our nonsensical bullshit aside and work together. 

It's insulting to me to read so many posts about all of the "idiot Americans" who only vote for Obama because they want "free cell phones" and other handouts.  The majority of my friends happen to be Democrats, and each and every one of them work their ass off for what they have.  I, personally, run a small business, work full time, have a growing list of clients I work with on the side, volunteer my time to various organizations and serve on the Board of Selectmen in New Gloucester.  I work myself to the bone every single day to put food on the table, and to teach my daughter how important hard work is.  Our new business, Maine Beer Tours, was started during President Obama's first term, and will not only continue through his second term, but it will grow and flourish.  I was always taught that hard work and determination pays off, and it is true.  I don't worry about which political party is in charge at the state or federal level, that has no bearing on my decision making process.  If my business ideas are good, they will succeed.  If they are not well thought out, they will be doomed.  That is on me, not somebody else.

To wrap this up with a pretty bow on it, let us all do the right thing and work together.  I don't care if you are a Republican or a Democrat.  I don't care if you are male or female, young or old.  We need to put our petty differences aside, cut the bullshit, and work together.  We do it every day at work, at school, or on the field.  We don't win without teamwork, and that holds true in all walks of life.  Let's focus on what is good, and make a plan to move the country, and our state, in that direction.  If we want to teach the next generation what it takes to be great, let's act like adults, and do what is right, not what is politically beneficial to our party or our brand.  I'm just saying...

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

I'm taking a pulse, assuming there even is one...

I fancy myself a bit of a political junkie, but I've been pretty quiet over the past couple of months.  There is so much happening on a daily basis to talk about, but sometimes it is better to sit back and take it all in then to jump into the fray.  Well, fray, here I come.  Based on posts from friends on Facebook, I'd have to say I have many more Democrat friends than Republicans, but there is definitely a good amount coming from both sides on a regular basis.  I haven't said too much on either side of the aisle, despite the many thoughts that come to mind as I read it all.  That said, I have noticed a general theme, and it has lead me to an observation.

One thing that I have noticed is that Obama supporters are just that, Obama supporters.  They will point out disagreements they have with Romney or the Republican platform, but it almost always includes reasoning as to why they support Obama.  In reverse, Romney supporters aren't really Romney supporters, they are Obama haters.  I see continuous posts about how great Reagan was, or anti-Obama posts all the time, but very little in the way of anything supportive of Romney.  I'm not convinced any Republican is actually excited about Mitt Romney.  It seems to me like it is another year of Republicans holding their collective noses and voting for the R because they hate the other side.  What I would love to hear is a Romney supporter actually give me reasons why they are voting for him, and they can't involve Obama bashing.  I'm not sure any can do it.

I hear all the time about how awful Obama has been for this country.  I keep hearing about how bad his foreign policy is and how much he loves big government.  I want to hear how Mitt Romney will be better, and it cannot involve the lie about how Obama runs all over the world apologizing for us.  I want to hear what good Romney will bring, period.  I understand that President Obama hasn't delivered on everything he promised 4 years ago, I can admit that.  While he hasn't brought the two sides together as well as I had hoped, let's be honest, it's not possible as things currently stand.  There is nothing he could say or do that would please Boehner, McConnell or Cantor.  There is nothing the president could change that would provide Rush Limbaugh or Sean Hannity with a positive segment about the him.  No matter what President Obama says or does, he will have Republicans like Rep. Allen West, former presidential hopeful Rick Santorum and Rep. Steve King standing there arguing against him.  I'm not convinced anyone could truly bring both sides together. 

So please, if there are any self proclaimed Romney supporters out there, please feel free to respond.  I'm curious what your thoughts are on Mitt.  I completely respect differing opinions, and welcome them with open arms.  For whatever it is worth, I will completely respect you for standing up for your pro Romney reasons, even though I won't necessarily agree with you.  However, if you come at me with anti-Obama rhetoric, I don't want to hear it.  Many of you wouldn't vote for a Democrat if it was your significant other on the ballot, and I know that.  However, you should remember that an R or a D in front of someones name doesn't paint the entire picture.  There should be more to your decision to vote for someone than just a label.  Oh, and I AM better off now than I was four years ago.  I'm just saying...

Thursday, May 17, 2012

I'm no Casey Kasem, but here are my top 10 favorite songs

I constantly find myself trying to determine what my favorite songs are, and to be honest, the list changes depending on my mood and what is going on in my life.  That said, there are a few songs that I always go to, always turn up when they come on, or just genuinely love.  This list is sort of all over the place, but I think that summarizes my musical interests fairly well.  In no particular order, they are...

10. Possum Kingdom - The Toadies  -  I just love this song.  Always have, always will.

9. Regulate - Warren G feat Nate Dogg  -  Try not to sing along to this song, seriously. 

8. Elderly Woman Behind A Counter In A Small Town - Pearl Jam  -  Great song by an incredible band.

7. Bubble Toes - Jack Johnson  -  The first song Kerrigan could sing along with.  It was priceless, and I always smile just thinking about it.

6. Two Step - Dave Matthews Band  -  My original favorite song from DMB, only got better after seeing it live on several occasions.

5. In Bloom - Nirvana  -  I can't have a list without Nirvana on it, they changed my musical world when they hit the scene, and this was always my favorite of theirs.

4. Shakedown Street - Grateful Dead  -  I will never forget hearing this for the first time.  I was at an all night disco tent at Lemonwheel (Phish festival in Limestone, ME) when it came on.  You should have seen me dancing!

3. Waste - Phish  -  One of my favorite bands of all time, and I just love this song. 

2. Love Of A Lifetime - Firehouse  -  A cheesy song from the 80's, which is enough to make me love it, but it is also the first song Nichole and I danced to at our wedding.  Enough said.

1. Thriller - Michael Jackson  -  No explanation necessary!


There are so many other songs that are close, but these are my absolute go to songs.  Some day I'll do a top 50, which will cover songs by Bob Dylan, Soul Coughing, Matt Costa, Beastie Boys and many more.  Until then, tell me some of yours, I'd love to find out if others have similar interests.  I'm just saying...

Monday, May 7, 2012

In a surprising move, Governor LePage says something insensitive...

Another day, another Governor LePage comment that draws the ire of many.  While speaking at the Maine Republic Convention over the weekend, he said, and I quote, "To all you able-bodied people out there, get off the couch and get yourself a job," prompting a standing ovation. 

At the very core of what he said, he's right.  If you are able to work, you should be out working, or looking for work.  However, I have a few issues with what he said.  As he so often does, he is painting with a very broad brush.  To suggest that anyone who is able-bodied and not working is just collecting a "free lunch" is beyond laughable.  I've been unemployed before, I have friends who have been unemployed before.  Getting a new job isn't as easy as people think.  Add to that difficulty the fact that it is a process, something that can takes weeks, if not months from submitting a resume to actually being offered a job.  To suggest that people aren't actually out searching for work, making contacts, using connections, really just doing whatever they can is not only inaccurate, it's offensive. 

Let's look at things from this angle, supply and demand.  According to the state's website, unemployemt was at 7.2% at the end of March, which works out to about 51,300 people out of work.  According to Indeed.com, which is an Internet job board that pulls from all over, there are 9,403 jobs in Maine as of right now.  To suggest that people need to get back to work is only valid when there are jobs for those people.  So, let's assume that all 9,403 jobs are filled up today by unemployed Mainers, there are still 41,897 people that can't get a job because there isn't one out there. 

Another factor that is continuing to work against unemployed people, not just in Maine, but accross the country, is that employers are giving preference to those that are already employed.  Someone who is currently employed has continuous work history, where someone who has been unemployed for, say, 6 months has some gaps.  Employers prefer seeing no gaps in your work history, so that alone makes it more difficult for the unemployed. 

Again, I agree that if you are able to work, you should.  That said, being able-bodied doesn't guarantee you a job.  I know that Governor LePage likes to get a good laugh, and fire a crowd up, but I'd much rather see him put his list of one-liners and insults away and work on improving the economy, improving consumer confidence and creating more jobs.  I mean, that seems like a pretty basic concept to me.  The constant belittling of people that receive state aid is the true definition of class warfare.  I'm just saying...

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

5 things I learned on vacation...

I just got back from a 10 day vacation, where we spent time on nearly the entire Eastern Seaboard, spending the bulk of the time down on the Outer Banks in North Carolina.  What a blast!  Sun, sand, wild horses, the Big Apple, Dogfish Head Brewery, mini golf and lots of driving.  Despite it being a trip for fun, I actually learned quite a bit.  The following are 5 things I learned on vacation that I wanted to share with all of you.  Here goes...

1.  New York City cops are kind of like Honey Badger, they don't give a shit!  We got ourselves into a EZPass only lane as we rolled into the city, and before we realized it, we couldn't get out of it.  No big deal I thought, we can just give them the toll amount and they will raise the arm for us.  HA!  Nope, big tough police man rails on me for a few minutes and then tells me to go ahead and pull off to the side, he'd be right up to ticket me.  Ticket me?!  I paid the toll, what the heck?!  Yeah, turns out it's a $130 fine for using the wrong lane at a toll booth in NYC!  Note to self, NYC and Maine are kind of different.

2.  Joe Bornstein isn't actually the guy in the ads.  Yeah, I know, I was shocked!  We saw a sign in either Virginia or North Carolina advertising a law firm down there, and much to my confusion, it was the same dude in the photo!  The following is an actual conversation I had with an Operator on their website...

System: You have entered the conversation. Waiting on operator...
System: Operator has entered the conversation.
Sylvia: Hi, I am Sylvia. How may I assist you?
Visitor: Hello Sylvia, completely random question for you today. The guy in the ads, what is his name? I saw him on a sign for a law firm in Virginia or North Carolina, was shocked to find out it wasn't Joe Bornstein. I died a little inside, truth be told.
Sylvia: We may be able to help you. Do you mind explaining the situation?
Visitor: I just did, any thoughts?
Sylvia: I understand.
Visitor: You are automated, aren't you? You really can't help me. Bummer.
Sylvia: I am a real person.
Sylvia: I am part of the live chat support team for the Law Offices of Joe Bornstein firm, and my job is to connect people with the most appropriate attorney for their situation.
Sylvia: If you don't mind leaving your contact details, I will forward it right away and request that you are contacted as soon as possible with the exact details.
Visitor: Right, but can you help me with who the guy in the ads are? That is all I really want to know.
Sylvia: May I ask your contact number and email address?
Visitor: Nevermind, I'll use Suri on my iPhone, she is more helpful.
Sylvia: Are you sure you would not like to leave an email just for future reference?
Visitor: I have no need for your services, other than trying to find out who the guy in the ads are. Seriously, finding out that he wasn't actually Joe Bornstein made me tear up a little, true story.
Sylvia: You can try contacting the office directly at 1-800-225-5563.
Sylvia: The receptionist should be able to assist you.
Visitor: I'll try that, or Suri, she does whatever I ask, and I mean whatever. Do you know what I mean?
Sylvia: I understand.
Visitor: Hey, thanks anyway, Sylvia. You have yourself a fine afternoon, and I'll continue my quest to find out who the mysterious man is. Peace out!
Sylvia: You are welcome.


Despite Sylvia being a real person, she wasn't very helpful, and I had to do my own research.  Turns out his name is Robert Vaughn and he does this very same ad for a variety of personal injury lawyers.  You learn something new every day!

3.  Radio stations that play top 40 music only play 5 or 6 of the most popular songs no matter where you are, not just here in Maine.  All this time I've given my daughter a hard time because 97.9 only plays a half dozen songs repeatedly.  However, all of the comparable stations we found from NY to NC did the same thing.  In fact, I now know every word to the new singles by Katy Perry, Nikki Minaj, Flo Rida, Fun, One Direction and Kelly Clarkson.  Yeah, I know they are popular, but come on, a little variety is a good thing for a radio station, right?

4.  Wild horses are beautiful and majestic.  We did a tour of the Carolina beaches in a couple of Jeeps looking for wild horses, and we saw probably 20 of the estimated 140 that are in that area.  We learned all about the history of how they got here (came over from Spain back in the mid 1500's), and how they tend to travel in packs consisting of usually one stallion and a varying numbers of mares.  We also learned that when a stallion feels threatened or wants to let you know he is in charge, he gets, shall I say, aroused.  You want to talk about awkward!  How do you explain to five kids ranging in age from 5 to 9 why some of the horses appear to have five legs?!  Holy crap! 

5.  Despite having an absolute blast with family and friends (both old and new), and everything else that comes along with a wonderful vacation, there really is not place like home.  Getting away reminds me of how much I really do love living right here in Maine.  There are so many great places in this country to visit, but there is no place I would rather be than here in the Pine Tree State.  Sure, I would love less snow and more sun.  I mean, seriously, we have it all right here.  From my house I can drive less than an hour and get to a beach, a mall, a remote campground, or a mountain for skiing.  Where else is that possible?  Sure, I think of living elsewhere from time to time, but I'm pretty happy right here.

In case I hadn't mentioned this already, I had a wonderful vacation.  It was the first real vacation I have taken since I think I was in high school, and to be able to take it with Nichole and Kerrigan, I couldn't have asked for anything more than that.  I have an amazing little family, and I look forward to many more vacations, and many more stories in the future.  I'm just saying...

Friday, March 16, 2012

Here we go again, and I'm not singing 80's Whitesnake...

It's been a few months, but it's come up again.  Governor LePage, in a town hall meeting at Oxford Hills High School, said that funding for the Maine Public Broadcasting Network is a form of corporate welfare that the state can no longer afford.  This isn't the first time he has tried to cut funding to MPBN, as he attempted to cut $4 million during the last year, which represent total funding for two years.  “Why should I pay welfare to a company?” he said. “It’s that simple. I need that money to pay welfare. I need the (money) to make sure some elderly don’t freeze. Quite frankly, ma’am, I think that’s more important.”

While I don't disagree with his sentiment about paying LIHEAP funds, he's being disengenious, at best.  As he typically does, he is passing this off as an either/or scenario.  It is not, especially when his new budget proposal contains about $38 million worth of tax cuts and new spending.  Also, let's look at the numbers.  We are talking about a total of $1.7 million.  This equals $1.30 per person.  This isn't a tax increase of $1.30, this is a continuation of all of us paying $1.30.  This is, litterally, pocket change.

Now, let's take a look at the "corporate welfare" portion of the comment made by Governor LePage.  According to the dictionary, corporate welfare is financial assistance, as tax breaks or subsidies, given by the government to profit-making companies, especially large corporations.  Correct me if I am wrong, but didn't LePage just sign into law LD 1735, which provides sales tax exemptions to bus companies?  I'm not arguing against giving tax breaks to companies, if they are directly tied to the creation of new, well paying jobs, as they are intended to do, but isn't that corporate welfare?  I mean, that fits the exact definition of corporate welfare. 

I'm not sure how public broadcasting has become considered a Liberal media outlet, but that is often the idea put forward by many on the right side of the aisle.  Now, if you want to hear things from a perspective of one side or the other, it isn't going to happen with public broadcasting.  I've heard a lot of people complain that they often cut away to hear press conferences from the White House.  Well, this actually makes sense.  Don't we want to hear about what is going on, no matter who inhabits 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue?  Yes, you hear from President Obama often, but that is because he is the President.  When George W Bush was President, they did the same thing.  Democrats listen to public radio, and watch public television, and so do Republicans.  This isn't, and shouldn't be a partisan issue. 

I'm sure this isn't going to pass, much like it didn't the last time, but I'm anxious to hear what others have to say about it.  Again, this isn't something that is bankrupting the state.  It costs us less than a cup of coffee a year, and provides educational programming for young and old alike.  Personally, I love being able to enjoy the Maine High School basketball tournament every year, as well as getting Maine news on my ride home from work every day.  I think this fight is old and tired, and not one worth bringing up every year, but I'm not sure Governor LePage cares.  I'm pretty sure he gets his marching orders from a higher power, and he'll continue to do their bidding.  I'm just saying...

Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Let's try something different, like tell the truth, mmmkay?

In a shocking development, Rush Limbaugh has a dirty mouth.  I know, I know, nobody saw that coming.  But seriously, what Rush said regarding Sandra Fluke, the Georgetown law student that testified in front of Congress, was vile.  Now others are following suit, claiming that Miss Fluke testified because she can't afford to buy birth control pills for "all of the sex she is having".  If he were saying this about my daughter, I'd be livid, that much is for certain.  But, what is really bothersome to me here is that those that Rush, and those echoing his sentiments have the whole story wrong.  Sandra Fluke wasn't there to testify on her own behalf, she was there speaking for others.  Don't believe me?  Here is the transcript...

"Leader Pelosi, Members of Congress, good morning, and thank you for calling this hearing on women’s health and allowing me to testify on behalf of the women who will benefit from the Affordable Care Act contraceptive coverage regulation. My name is Sandra Fluke, and I’m a third year student at Georgetown Law, a Jesuit school. I’m also a past president of Georgetown Law Students for Reproductive Justice or LSRJ. I’d like to acknowledge my fellow LSRJ members and allies and all of the student activists with us and thank them for being here today.

Georgetown LSRJ is here today because we’re so grateful that this regulation implements the nonpartisan, medical advice of the Institute of Medicine. I attend a Jesuit law school that does not provide contraception coverage in its student health plan. Just as we students have faced financial, emotional, and medical burdens as a result, employees at religiously affiliated hospitals and universities across the country have suffered similar burdens. We are all grateful for the new regulation that will meet the critical health care needs of so many women. Simultaneously, the recently announced adjustment addresses any potential conflict with the religious identity of Catholic and Jesuit institutions.

When I look around my campus, I see the faces of the women affected, and I have heard more and more of their stories. . On a daily basis, I hear from yet another woman from Georgetown or other schools or who works for a religiously affiliated employer who has suffered financial, emotional, and medical burdens because of this lack of contraceptive coverage. And so, I am here to share their voices and I thank you for allowing them to be heard.

Without insurance coverage, contraception can cost a woman over $3,000 during law school. For a lot of students who, like me, are on public interest scholarships, that’s practically an entire summer’s salary. Forty percent of female students at Georgetown Law report struggling financially as a result of this policy. One told us of how embarrassed and powerless she felt when she was standing at the pharmacy counter, learning for the first time that contraception wasn’t covered, and had to walk away because she couldn’t afford it. Women like her have no choice but to go without contraception. Just last week, a married female student told me she had to stop using contraception because she couldn’t afford it any longer. Women employed in low wage jobs without contraceptive coverage face the same choice.

You might respond that contraception is accessible in lots of other ways. Unfortunately, that’s not true. Women’s health clinics provide vital medical services, but as the Guttmacher Institute has documented, clinics are unable to meet the crushing demand for these services. Clinics are closing and women are being forced to go without. How can Congress consider the Fortenberry, Rubio, and Blunt legislation that would allow even more employers and institutions to refuse contraceptive coverage and then respond that the non-profit clinics should step up to take care of the resulting medical crisis, particularly when so many legislators are attempting to defund those very same clinics?
These denials of contraceptive coverage impact real people. In the worst cases, women who need this medication for other medical reasons suffer dire consequences. A friend of mine, for example, has polycystic ovarian syndrome and has to take prescription birth control to stop cysts from growing on her ovaries. Her prescription is technically covered by Georgetown insurance because it’s not intended to prevent pregnancy. Under many religious institutions’ insurance plans, it wouldn’t be, and under Senator Blunt’s amendment, Senator Rubio’s bill, or Representative Fortenberry’s bill, there’s no requirement that an exception be made for such medical needs. When they do exist, these exceptions don’t accomplish their well-intended goals because when you let university administrators or other employers, rather than women and their doctors, dictate whose medical needs are legitimate and whose aren’t, a woman’s health takes a back seat to a bureaucracy focused on policing her body.
In sixty-five percent of cases, our female students were interrogated by insurance representatives and university medical staff about why they needed these prescriptions and whether they were lying about their symptoms. For my friend, and 20% of women in her situation, she never got the insurance company to cover her prescription, despite verification of her illness from her doctor. Her claim was denied repeatedly on the assumption that she really wanted the birth control to prevent pregnancy. She’s gay, so clearly polycystic ovarian syndrome was a much more urgent concern than accidental pregnancy. After months of paying over $100 out of pocket, she just couldn’t afford her medication anymore and had to stop taking it. I learned about all of this when I walked out of a test and got a message from her that in the middle of her final exam period she’d been in the emergency room all night in excruciating pain. She wrote, “It was so painful, I woke up thinking I’d been shot.” Without her taking the birth control, a massive cyst the size of a tennis ball had grown on her ovary. She had to have surgery to remove her entire ovary. On the morning I was originally scheduled to give this testimony, she sat in a doctor’s office. Since last year’s surgery, she’s been experiencing night sweats, weight gain, and other symptoms of early menopause as a result of the removal of her ovary. She’s 32 years old. As she put it: “If my body indeed does enter early menopause, no fertility specialist in the world will be able to help me have my own children. I will have no chance at giving my mother her desperately desired grandbabies, simply because the insurance policy that I paid for totally unsubsidized by my school wouldn’t cover my prescription for birth control when I needed it.” Now, in addition to potentially facing the health complications that come with having menopause at an early age-- increased risk of cancer, heart disease, and osteoporosis, she may never be able to conceive a child.

Perhaps you think my friend’s tragic story is rare. It’s not. One woman told us doctors believe she has endometriosis, but it can’t be proven without surgery, so the insurance hasn’t been willing to cover her medication. Recently, another friend of mine told me that she also has polycystic ovarian syndrome. She’s struggling to pay for her medication and is terrified to not have access to it. Due to the barriers erected by Georgetown’s policy, she hasn’t been reimbursed for her medication since last August. I sincerely pray that we don’t have to wait until she loses an ovary or is diagnosed with cancer before her needs and the needs of all of these women are taken seriously.

This is the message that not requiring coverage of contraception sends. A woman’s reproductive healthcare isn’t a necessity, isn’t a priority. One student told us that she knew birth control wasn’t covered, and she assumed that’s how Georgetown’s insurance handled all of women’s sexual healthcare, so when she was raped, she didn’t go to the doctor even to be examined or tested for sexually transmitted infections because she thought insurance wasn’t going to cover something like that, something that was related to a woman’s reproductive health. As one student put it, “this policy communicates to female students that our school doesn’t understand our needs.” These are not feelings that male fellow students experience. And they’re not burdens that male students must shoulder.
In the media lately, conservative Catholic organizations have been asking: what did we expect when we enrolled at a Catholic school? We can only answer that we expected women to be treated equally, to not have our school create untenable burdens that impede our academic success. We expected that our schools would live up to the Jesuit creed of cura personalis, to care for the whole person, by meeting all of our medical needs. We expected that when we told our universities of the problems this policy created for students, they would help us. We expected that when 94% of students opposed the policy, the university would respect our choices regarding insurance students pay for completely unsubsidized by the university. We did not expect that women would be told in the national media that if we wanted comprehensive insurance that met our needs, not just those of men, we should have gone to school elsewhere, even if that meant a less prestigious university. We refuse to pick between a quality education and our health, and we resent that, in the 21st century, anyone thinks it’s acceptable to ask us to make this choice simply because we are women.

Many of the women whose stories I’ve shared are Catholic women, so ours is not a war against the church. It is a struggle for access to the healthcare we need. The President of the Association of Jesuit Colleges has shared that Jesuit colleges and universities appreciate the modification to the rule announced last week. Religious concerns are addressed and women get the healthcare they need. That is something we can all agree on. Thank you."  

I know that was long, but I wanted to include everything, so that people could see that she didn't go to speak about how her many sexual excapades were doing damage to her wallet.  If a person wants to argue that birth control shouldn't be mandated, fine, argue your point.  However, don't lie.  Don't make up stories and don't belittle a woman you know nothing about.  I applaud those advertisers and stations that have dropped Limbaugh's program, and I hope more continue to do the same.  We, as a nation, need to stop this nonsense of name calling and lie telling to get "our side" heard, or our point across.  The majority of the people in this country are moderate, leaning slightly to either side.  Let's stop letting the loudest among us make all the decisions and headlines.  I'm just saying...

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Birth control? We're talking about birth control?

Birth control?  We're talking about birth control?  Not the economy, not how to grow the economy, we're talking about birth control?! 

See what I just did there?  I took the now famous quote from former NBA star Allen Iverson about practice and made it topical.  Good stuff right there!  But seriously, that's what we are spending all of our time and energy on right now?  Every political talk show is going on and on about the evils of birth control, and legislators are scheming up ways to eliminate it from the menu of what insurance companies provide.  Really?  Something like 98% of women have used at least one form of birth control, however, it is suddenly a horrible thing that needs to be destroyed?!  What are we doing here?  This country faces real problems, and this is simply not one of them. 

To be honest, I think I know what is happening.  See, President Obama has seen his approval rating climb.  Unemployment figures are getting better all the time.  The economy may actually be getting better.  Instead of suggesting that maybe the president is doing something right, it is much easier to create a huge distraction, so people forget about the improving numbers for Obama.  I mean, that has to be it, right?  How in the hell are contraceptions all of a sudden the devil?!  They have been in use dating back to the Egyptians in 1850 BC.  It's not like it's some new, radical thing.  Also, have you noticed that the people leading the charge against contraception are religious leaders and men?  If memory serves, these are the same people that don't use birth control, so what are they getting all huffy about? 

I've got an idea.  Why don't we demonize women, in an election year!  Why don't we let women decide what is best for their bodies, and let couples properly plan their families.  If we are serious about protecting individual liberties, we need to start in the bedroom, and we need to start now.  I'm just saying...

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

I've asked this before, and apparently I now know the answer. No, we can't all just get along...

I long for a day where we can stop calling each other names, stop fighting with people that don't act like us or look like us.  I really wish that we could all just get along.  I mean, what harm could come out of a civilized nation?  How nice would it be to just relax and enjoy every day, instead of seeking out the next person to argue with?  Call me crazy, but I think we have it in us.  Sure, it wouldn't be easy, nothing worth doing ever is, but it sure does beat the alternative.  Below are just a few of the things we are fighting over right now. 

As many of you have surely heard, the Obama administration, as part of the Affordable Care Act, is requiring all employers, including Catholic universities and hospitals, to cover contraception in their employees health care plan.  This has Conservative leaders screaming that President Obama is stepping all over religious liberties.  Now, I'm not one to talk about religion, that can be a touchy subject for many people.  That being said, I'm sorry, I'm not buying into the whole President Obama is anti-religion nonsense.  This mandate doesn't force anyone, not a single person, to actually use the birth control, or other contraceptive methods, it simply requires the employer to offer it up to its employees.  For example, if you are a Catholic, and you feel that it is against your religion to use birth control (which many Catholics do use birth control, despite the cries coming from the Right), you are not required to use it.  Conversely, if you are not a Catholic, and you are working for a Catholic university, you will be given the opportunity to receive birth control through your health care plan.  Nobody is stepping on your religious beliefs.  If you don't believe in taking a birth control pill, you still don't have to.  That is left completely up to you.  This isn't even about religion.  This is about a women's right to choose what she would like to do. 

Proposition 8 was ruled unconstitutional in the state of California, opening the door to allowing same sex marriage in the Golden State.  This could be an interesting development, following in the footsteps of New York, where same sex marriage is now legal.  The question of same sex marriage will be on the ballot here in Maine this November, and many feel that it will pass this time around, even if only by a small margin.  This, also, has turned into a religious battle.  My argument is this.  Not everybody is religious, but everybody has the right to get married.  The first amendment of the Constitution prohibits the federal and state governments from establishing an official religion, or from favoring or disfavoring one view of religion over another.  That seems pretty clear to me that one view of religion doesn't reign supreme over any other, including that of someone who doesn't practice a religion.  We can't pick and choose when a religion should apply to all people, it doesn't work that way.  If two people love each other, and want to commit to each other, then who am I to tell them no.  Let's do the right there here, what should have been done a long time ago.

There is a budget battle brewing up in Augusta, and if Governor LePage is in charge, it will surely get ugly.  Republican and Democratic legislators came to an agreement early this morning on a budget that would get us through the end of fiscal year 2012, avoiding major cuts to DHHS, which could have affected many elderly, young and poor people across the state, as well as many related agencies that provide much needed programs for people of all walks of life.  However, I'm sure Governor LePage won't find this compromise acceptable, as he has already stated that he will veto anything that doesn't look exactly how he wants things.  The Appropriations Committee did what they were sent to Augusta to do, make difficult decisions, but come to a resolution.  Let's hope Governor LePage does what he was sent to Augusta to do as well, and not just throw another temper tantrum. 

These are just a few cases of people fighting against each other.  I know that we all want what is best at the end of the day, and I also realize that we have different visions as to what actually is best.  That being said, I think we all need to take a deep breath and relax.  Yelling, screaming, swearing and name calling are not productive.  I'm just saying...

Thursday, January 5, 2012

New year, new me, and this time, I mean it. No, seriously...

I know, I know, we all say the same crap every year.  X, Y and Z are my resolutions, and I am totally sticking to them this year.  I'm going to the gym every day, or I'm not drinking at all this year.  We do this to ourselves every year.  I'm no different.  I've given things up, sworn things off, and told myself I would do this and that, and it would last for a week, maybe two, and I'd be right back to the old Mark again in no time at all.  Well, this year is different.  Wait, before you say what you are thinking, and I know what you are thinking, I really mean it this time.  See, this year is a little different. 

As many of you know, Nichole and I lead very busy lives.  We are involved in as much as we can get our hands on.  Politics, sports, work and everything in between are fair game to us.  We love being on the go.  For example, I'm writing this while simultaneously preparing for an audit, at the office, at 7:30 at night, while Nichole is hanging out with her little sister (Nichole is a big sister as part of Big Brothers Big Sisters).  There is no such thing as downtime to us, and we prefer it that way.  Well, this year is going to be even worse, or better, depending on how you view things.  See, we have dubbed 2012 as the year of MSH.  What is MSH you ask?  Make Shit Happen. 

We work hard, play hard, and get every ounce out of life.  That said, we continue to want more.  I have always been a hard worker that is seldom heard from.  I have always kept to myself at work, and just did my thing and chugged along.  Well, no more.  There are many changes happening at my office, and I'm going to be involved in every aspect of everything that happens going forward.  I'm not only going to be the first to volunteer for things, I'm going to kick ass at it as well.  I want to get more involved in the community, more involved in the workplace, and more involved with my family.  I want to go to bed every evening absolutely exhausted from an amazing day of making shit happen. 

See, when I was growing up, I dreamed of becoming the next Larry Bird.  I was going to play professional basketball for the Boston Celtics, and I was going to be living the dream.  Well, things didn't work out quite like that, but just because I'm not dropping 24 points a night and grabbing 10 rebounds, doesn't mean I'm not capable of living the dream.  If I continue to push myself and work my tail off, I will be able to accomplish even more than I dreamed of.  There are things I can do to make myself a better father, a better husband, and a better professional, and that is just what I plan on doing.  Watch out world, I'm taking over.  2012 will be the year of MSH, I'm just saying...

Friday, December 16, 2011

My Time Questioning Her Time At Wal-Mart...

I'm sure most of you, if not all, have seen it by now.  The blog post by "CollegeConservative" about welfare abuse.  For those that haven't, it's right here.  First of all, I can't take anyone seriously if the advertisement on their page is referencing www.commieobama.com.  President Obama is not a communist.  President Bush wasn't Hitler.  Look, you can dislike their politics, but leave the stupid comparisons to evil people alone.  You lose all credibility right off the bat.  Anyways, I saw the link to the blog post showing up in my Facebook feeds like crazy the other day.  I had to read it to find out what everyone was talking about.  Well, what I read was, in my opinion, a steaming pile of human excrement.  Basically, "college conservative" is painting people that use food stamps or other forms of State and Federal aid as a freeloading "Welfare Queen".  Hold on a minute, what?

First of all, I'm not going to suggest, not for a minute, that abuse is not happening.  Anyone who denies that people are abusing the welfare system is kidding themselves.  That said, abuse is happening everywhere, by people of all walks of life.  This isn't just being done by the poorest among us, it is absolutely happening among wealthy people as well.  People will always find a way to screw the system.  What angers me more than anything else on this subject, though, is how so many people paint with a broad brush.  I understand that abuse upsets people, I do.  However, it is completely inaccurate to suggest that abuse is widespread or that everyone receiving aid is a "freeloader" or that they are "lazy". 

Let's look at some of the information that College Conservative puts forward as facts.  She claims to have worked at the Scarborough Wal-Mart for the summers of 2010 and 2011.  She says that, in that time, she "witnessed generations of families all relying on the state to buy food and other items".  Again, perhaps this is true, to an extent, but she casually observed this while scanning items at the checkout counter over the course of two summers?  Generations of families?  Really?  This, again, seems like a pretty broad accusation.  Did she know the families personally?  Did they shop together, therefore she assumed they were families?  To me, too many questions to assume she saw "generations" of families relying on the state.

People ignored her while they talked on their iPhone.  First of all, people of all stripes do this everywhere.  It happens at the drive thru, the bank and toll booths.  It's annoying, no matter who you are.   However, she loses me when she starts using numbers.  "For those of you keeping score at home, an iPhone is at least $200, and requires a data package of at least $25 a month. If a person can spend $25+ a month so they can watch YouTube 24/7, I don’t see why they can’t spend that money on food," she says.  Perhaps the phone is a hand-me-down from mom and dad.  Perhaps they don't have a data plan that allows them to "watch YouTube 24/7".  Perhaps they didn't pay $200 for the phone, and got a refurbished version for considerably less, much like I did.  Again, alot of assumptions here, and to quote my high school Botany teacher, you know what happens when you assume, right?

She ridicules people for using TANF benefits to purchase things such as Kit Kat bars, beer and a slip and slide, then goes on to say that there are no restrictions on what TANF benefits can be used for.  So, where is the abuse?  Were they all great choices for uses of the funds?  Not necessarily, but who are we to judge.  If a person wants to waste benefits they are eligible for, and go without something that could be more beneficial, that is their choice.  If you have a problem with the system, fix that, don't ridicule the individual for doing what they have every right to do.

Extravagant purchases made with food stamps, such as steaks, lobsters and giant birthday cakes.  Again, if the system is set up in such a way that this is acceptable, then the people following the rules aren't the problem.  If a person wants to use $60 in food stamps to purchase lobster, and then has nothing else to show for it, that is their choice.  Sure, it may not be a smart move on their part, but who am I to judge.  As for birthday cakes, perhaps that is because they have a child having a birthday, and they can't do much for them, but they can at least get them a cake.  Why is that so wrong?  Are poor children not allowed to have a birthday cake? 

The hot dog vendor that purchases all of his supplies (hot dogs, buns, condiments, etc) using food stamps is an interesting case.  If this is true, that's not cool.  If this is true, I would agree, this is wrong.  However, I'd need more information first, before accusing him of any wrongdoing.  This is another case of jumping to conclusions without knowing all the facts.  If he is breaking the rules, kick him off the system.  If what he is doing is well within the current guidelines, be mad all you want, but it is legit. 

The issue of entitlement is absolutely a problem, and one I won't argue with her about.  That said, it's not just by benefit recipients.  There are people all around us, both rich, poor and middle class that walk around like their shit doesn't stink.  Nobody is entitled to anything.  We must work for it.  If we hit a bump in the road, and we need assistance in one form or another, then so be it, there is a safety net in place for just that reason.  It can hit any of us at any time.  I've been there before.  You have to swallow your pride and accept reality, and it isn't always easy.  There is no reason to feel like you are above anyone else, no matter what the reason. 

Maine does have a large chunk of the population receiving benefits, and again, I'm certain that there is abuse happening within the system.  That said, suggesting that people that are on welfare assistance are lazy freeloaders is not only wrong, but it's insulting.  If we feel that there is a problem with how the system works, then we need to focus on that, not by attacking people that are already down on their luck.  Until we walk a mile in their shoes we have absolutely no right to suggest we know anything about them or their situation.  If we spent more time figuring out how to get these people back to work and earning a paycheck, and less time demonizing them, we would all be much further ahead.  Until then, pieces like the one from College Conservative do nothing but incite anger and class warfare, and that is not helpful.  I'm just saying...

Friday, November 18, 2011

Right idea, wrong approach...

Occupy Wall Street.  I'm sure you've heard about it by now.  Heck, it has spread all over this country, even all over the world.  What is it?  What do they stand for?  Who is leading the charge?  What are they hoping the outcome will be?  While the movement may only be two months old, there are still so many questions remaining.  Let's see if I can touch upon a few of them, and give my impressions of the movement.

First of all, what is Occupy Wall Street?  Conceptually, I think it is great.  I see OWS as a movement of people fed up with politics as usual.  This country has shifted from the land of opportunity to the land of haves and have nots.  We continue to see the gap between wealthy and poor grow wider and people are rightfully upset about this.  Now, before you accuse me of hating rich people or spewing class warfare, stop, I don't begrudge someone for having money.  If they have worked hard and earned their money, good for them!  What I am tired of, however, is the loopholes the rich are given at the expense of us in the middle class.  People with money are able to influence those on Capital Hill to help them out even more, while people like me are only able to see my bank account get bigger by picking up a 3rd, 4th or 5th job.  I do not want to be given anything, I want to work for it.  Like I said, I'm not mad at you for your successes in life, I applaud you.  That said, I'm tired of paying more in taxes so you can get a break.

Like I said before, conceptually this idea is fantastic.  However, I'm not sure we should be mad at those on Wall Street.  While I feel many of them may be immoral people, they haven't broken any laws.  They are operating under the current set of laws, whether we like them or not.  That said, our anger should be directed toward our elected officials past and present in Washington DC.  They are the ones who make the rules.  They are the ones that continue to give tax breaks to the wealthiest among us.  They are the ones who have a lower approval rating than the Kardashians for gods sake.  We should be occupying DC, and reminding Congress that they work for all of us, not just a select few.

I recently tried to explain to my 9 year old daughter what they were doing as we drove by Lincoln Park in Portland, where the Occupy Maine group is camping out.  She had a hard time understanding it all, and rightfully so, she is only 9, but her first comment was, why camp out?  I couldn't answer this question.  I don't really know.  I mean, I get that in order to occupy an area you need to set up shop.  I get it.  However, I think it is a bad way to protest.  We have the most powerful form of protesting, our vote.  If we are unhappy with how things are going, we can go to the ballot box and vote for people who will do right for the people.  If the new batch of politicians can't do what is right, we can vote them out and start over.  However, in order to make this work we have to stop worrying about party affiliation and insist that no matter what you call yourself, a Democrat or a Republican, you need to look out for everyone, not just those that give you the most in bribes.

Every good movement needs leadership.  While I appreciate their attempt to keep this open to more people, it's hard to not have a central person to be the face of the movement.  What's worse, is now it is starting to spin out of control.  With no real leadership to speak of, and occupiers intentionally getting arrested to make some point, this movement will fall flat on its face.  Again, I want to rally behind them, but I simply cannot.  In order to turn things around and make this movement become a legitimate force, like the Tea Party did, it needs individuals to stand up and proclaim its purpose and goals.  It needs someone to whip the occupiers into shape and lead them in a positive direction.  You can claim that you are peacefully protesting until you are blue in the face, but with every arrest, every riot, every person that smashes a window, you lose more and more credibility. 

In all honesty, I'm losing hope for the Occupy Wall Street movement.  I'm hopeful that the concept can live on, but I think the movement itself is losing any steam it may have once had.  If there is truly a large percentage, say 99%, that is pissed off with politics as usual, then we need to hit the ballot boxes next November and send a message to the politicians in Washington.  If they aren't going to do what is best for all of us, we need to send them home so someone else will.  That is how you get a point across.  Stop trashing parks and blocking bridges.  All that is going to do is disrupt the lives of people who have nothing to do with this, and that isn't acceptable.  If you want to be taken seriously, do the right thing and make change, don't site around and bitch about it.  I'm just saying...

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

I have a fear of falling, but I love the fall...

We've had a pretty great stretch of weather lately.  Sure, there has been some rain sprinkled in, but the past two weekends have been great.  I mowed for what is, hopefully, the last time of the year on Sunday.  Not with my mower, mind you.  No, that hunk of junk wouldn't work longer than five minutes.  Nope, instead, I had to borrow the neighbors mower.  Not that I am a macho man, but there is something embarrassing about borrowing a lawn mower from your 25 year old female neighbor.  Whatever, I got the lawn done, that's all that matters.  Anyways, enough about me, how about what is going on around us...

9-9-9.  It's a catchy title.  It's easy to remember.  It's great if you are rich.  It's awful if you are middle class or poor.  Herman Cain's 9-9-9 plan is getting all sorts of headlines right now.  The reason it is so bad for poor people is that many of the poor pay no income taxes, Social Security taxes or Medicare taxes. Therefore, wiping away the current tax structure and replacing it with a 9 percent income tax for everyone means they will be paying more. In addition, the poor, like everyone else, will have to pay the plans new 9 percent federal sales tax, and they are the least able to afford it.  Some might call that doubling down on the nation's poorest people, but not Herman Cain.  Press him on the issue and he'll give you nothing more than a "read the plan" and then change the subject.  I guess, if you are looking for something good in the plan, at least the 9% sales tax is only on new goods.  That way, if you want to go to the used grocery store, you can do so without worrying about a higher sales tax.

Anita Perry, wife of Republican Presidential Nominee hopeful Rick Perry, claimed that her husband has been bullied because of his faith.  Really?  I'll quickly counter that with two thoughts.  One, Rick Perry has been bullied, that is true, but not because of his faith.  No, he's been bullied because he can't form complete sentences.  He's been an absolute train wreck at the debates.  He's been stumbling all over himself no matter what the subject matter.  Oh, and he has given in state tuition rates to illegal aliens.  The Republican base isn't too keen on that sort of thing.  The other thought I have on this subject is about Rick Perry's faith.  First of all, I don't care what faith he practices.  That sort of thing is for him, not me, to worry about.  Secondly, Anita Perry does realize that the Republican base is made up of Evangelical Christians, right?  If anyone is getting bullied because of their religion it is Mitt Romney for being Mormon.  I'd say John Huntsman as well, but nobody it talking about him, which is too bad.  I think he would actually be a good choice.

LePage excludes nonprofit groups from upcoming forums.  The LePage administration is under fire, again, for their decision to not invite the Maine Association of Nonprofits to a workshop designed to share ideas on how to get Maine's economy back on track.  According to Lauren LePage, the governor's daughter and assistant to the Chief of Staff, it was “because the goal is to hear firsthand from businesses, first priority will be given to them with seating,” Lauren LePage wrote. “If the situation changes as the event nears, I would be happy to include you on an alternate list and contact you.”  Quickly, I'd like to point out that non-profits in Maine employ 82,000 people all over the state.  These people work very hard, pay their taxes, and give back to the community in a variety of ways.  Sounds to me like non-profits are job creators as well, and should have a seat at the head of the table.  Is this papa LePage's way of getting back at those he doesn't think helped contribute to his campaign?  Is this a new group of people / businesses we are going to try to vilify to make them sound inferior?  Are we now supposed to be mad at non-profits because of their tax exempt status?  Is it because they receive, in some cases, funding from state and federal government? 

Let me drop a little knowledge.  I worked for the Children's Theatre of Maine several years ago.  We employed a minimum of 6 people year round.  We employed another 10-40 people on an as needed basis.  We paid rent for two locations.  We bought office supplies at local stores.  We purchased the items needed to set up stages, make costumes and put on classes at local stores.  Our main goal was to give back to the community, and we never got a dime from the state or federal government.  Without that great organization, many children wouldn't not have been inspired to take up acting.  Many families would not have had a wonderful experience watching a play together, performed by local actors of all ages.  Not one person on the staff made very much money.  We worked hard because we believed in the what we were doing.  Many non-profits are just like that.  Without these types of organizations, many people will not receive the goods and services they enjoy or simply need.  Without these types of organizations, many people will be without work, doing further damage to our already struggling economy.  Simply put, these organizations are a vital part of our community, and need to be viewed that way.  We need to stop seeing one person, or in this case, type of business, as better than another.  We are all in this together, and we need to start acting that way.  I'm just saying...

Friday, September 30, 2011

Class warfare, flip flops and a major collapse...

It's been one hell of a week.  The weekend is just a couple of hours away, and some fun times are on tap.  After this week, it can't come soon enough.  I've calmed down a little bit from my high stress of this morning, but I still have a few things on my mind that I would like to throw down on paper (assuming I was actually writing this in a notebook).  Here goes...

The term "class warfare" has been tossed around a lot lately.  Republicans are continuously accusing President Obama of class warfare due to his talk about the wealthiest American's paying their fair share in taxes.  Now, that is not the subject of this post, though I would love to debate that whole issue at another time.  My issue with that term is this.  Nichole and I listen to WLOB (1310 AM) on the way to work just about every morning.  We like to hear how host Ray Richardson sees the world through his eyes.  It's most often completely different than the way we see things, but I love the local political talk.  This morning Ray went on one of his usual rants.  He wasn't as excited as he can get, but he was going on and on about how he is sick and tired of paying his tax dollars to people who don't work.  He thinks it is insane that his hard earned money is going to people who aren't contributing to society.  Quick question for you.  How is this not class warfare?  Unemployment is extremely high right now, and a record number of people are collecting benefits.  That doesn't mean they haven't paid into the system themselves.  That doesn't mean they aren't trying their hardest to find work, to no avail.  Why is this sort of talk not considered class warfare? 

Oh, Governor LePage.  I didn't vote for you.  If given another opportunity, I wouldn't vote for you.  However, I want to support you.  I want you to succeed, because the great State of Maine needs you to succeed.  Let me tell you something though, any positive thing you do for the great people of this state will easily be lost and forgotten if you continue to lie and act like a buffoon.  Back in April, you ordered that the labor mural be taken down because of an anonymous fax.  I'm sorry, I'm not sure I believe that, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt.  Next thing we all know you are saying you removed it (and hid it in a "safe place") because it only spoke to one side, labor, and you wanted to see business represented as well.  Now, fast forward to late September, on a stage in New York City, you told Brian Williams of NBC that you removed it because you didn't like how it was paid for?!  Look, was that an out of left field question thrown at you during an education summit?  Yes, that was unfair of Williams to do that, I'll give you that.  However, you gave a new answer, one that you have not given previously.  Have you been lying all along, or was this a new lie?  And what union were you a part of?  I mean, you said you "come up from organized labor through my whole life", so you must have belonged to a labor union at some point, right?  Again, I want you to succeed, so please, do us all a favor.  Work hard and keep your mouth closed.  It's best for all of us, trust me.

As a rabid Red Sox fan, our baseball season ended the way it began, with a thud.  After starting the season with a terrible 2-10 record, they were the hottest team in baseball for the better part of the summer.  Then came September, where they compiled an embarrassing 5-20 record.  Every team slumps at some point in the season, but the good teams don't usually slump for an entire month.  What makes it worse is that they gave up both the division lead, as well as the Wild Card lead over the course of the month.  It was a collapse for the record books.  It is something that you do not want attached to your team.  It hurts.  However, I do not want to see the team overreact.  Fans all over New England and beyond are going insane right now.  Fire Francona, trade Crawford, feed Dice-K to sharks, put Lackey in a dunk tank filled with piranhas, etc. 

Please, everyone calm down.  JD Drew's contract is up.  Dice-K won't be back from Tommy John surgery until late August or early September next season, and he won't ever pitch for Boston again (I don't think).  Buchholz will be back from his injury and ready to dominate.  I'll play the role of Theo Epstein and tell you exactly what you need to do.  Sign a right fielder.  Someone like Josh Willingham or Jason Kubel.  Someone that will give you 20/80 and is a solid outfielder.  Pick up Marco Scutaro's option.  He was solid defensively and batted .300, and has been the best shortstop in the Theo era.  Resign Papelbon and Ortiz.  You will not find a better DH than Big Papi, and he is a fan favorite.  Papelbon needs to stay, at least for another year or two.  Bard is clearly not ready to close, and Pap has been one of the best since he came onto the scene.  With those positions set, go after pitching.  Get more pitching.  Once you have more pitching, go after more pitching.  You CANNOT have enough pitching, whether it's starters or bullpen guys.  Go get them, they are out there.  Pitching is what killed us, so let's do something about it.  Unfortunately, Francona and the Sox decided to part ways.  That makes me sad.  He brought us our first World Series in 86 years.  I can only hope the next guy can be mentioned in the same sentence years from now with Tito.  I'm just saying...

Thursday, September 22, 2011

Oh Charlie, the only fraud here is you!

I'm not sure if you've all gotten the memo yet, but voter fraud is rampant in Maine.   It's most prevalent on college campuses.  Those darn kids are always messing things up.  We just want to make sure informed people vote, why do those silly kids always think they know everything?  See, it was different when I was in college, I knew about all the issues, and was able to vote because I fit into all the required criteria.  Not like today, when kids just play Playstation and watch Family Guy.  They have no idea what is going on around them.  It's simply awful that we still allow them to disenfranchise the local townspeople by voting.  I mean, that's what Charlie Webster, head of the Maine Republican Party says, so it must be correct, right?

Actually, voter fraud is anything but rampant in Maine.  This whole game that Mr. Webster has been playing this summer has been a farce, and we all knew it.  Heck, even those that supported Webster knew, deep down, that he was full of crap.  As I'm sure you remember, Charlie came out earlier this summer with his list of 206 names of out of state college students that he felt committed fraud (here's a link to the press conference if you haven't seen it).  He handed his list of "offenders" off to the Maine Secretary of State, Charlie Summers, and just yesterday, Summers came back with the results of his research.  After two months, and much digging and prodding, it turns out, not a single one of the students on the list had committed any type of fraud.  See, the problem for Webster, and the Republicans that believe there is massive amounts of fraud going on here, is that college students aren't the problem.  In fact, there isn't a problem at all.  The elimination of Same Day Registration by the Maine Legislature was a solution to a problem that doesn't exist. 

See, college students were the targets of Webster's attack.  They have every right, by law, to vote where they go to school.  They voted once, in the town that they live in, just as college students have done for years, and will continue to do for years to come.  The real issue, as far as I can tell, is that Webster, and I'm sure others too, don't like that college students have the ability to possibly sway an election, and the perception is that college students tend to lean to the left.  It's pretty clear to me that this scares our friend Charlie Webster.  So, instead of engaging college students in a positive manner, he accuses them of cheating.  I'm not sure that will go very far to convincing them to support the Republican's agenda.  In fact, I wouldn't be surprised to see college students come out, in droves, to vote this November, especially for Question 1, which looks to reinstate same day voter registration. 

In the end, I'm glad Secretary of State Summers looked into potential fraud.  It proves that there was no funny business going on, and that our town officials are doing their jobs.  It proves that our system works, despite the cries of many on the right.  It also should put an end to this nonsense about college students and voting.  We want to encourage everyone to vote, to be involved in their community, and to be a part of something bigger than themselves.  We especially want college students to feel that way, as we want them to stay after graduation and contribute to Maine's economy by living, working and playing here.  I am proud that Maine has one of the highest voter turnouts in the country, and hope to see that continue.  I want to thank all of our town officials for all the hard work they do, and I want to encourage everyone to get out and vote on Question 1 on November 8 to reinstate same day voter registration.  I'm just saying...

Thursday, August 18, 2011

Rot roh, I'm at it again...

There are two things I'm very passionate about in life.  One is peanut butter M&M's, the other is same sex marriage.  OK, I'm passionate about more than that, but these damn M&M's are just so good, I can't stop eating them!  For real though, the issue of same sex marriage is extremely important to me.  Obviously, I'm not gay.  I am happily married to my absolute best friend, Nichole.  No, my reasoning is because I believe in equal rights, no matter what color your skin is, what religion you follow, what year you were born, or who you sleep beside at night.  We are all equal.  Sure, some have better athletic abilities, or superior public speaking skills, or the ability to do math without a calculator, but at the end of the day, we are all human beings, and deserve the same love and respect as everyone else. 

This week, the Maine Attorney General, Charlie Summers, approved the language of the citizen's initiative to allow same sex marriage in Maine.  I know, we've been down that road before, just a couple of years ago, with the effort falling short at the hands of the Maine voters.  Well, I think it's time to try it again.  New York just passed a law allowing same sex marriages to be legal, and I'm hopeful Maine will be able to do the same thing.  This much I know for sure, I'll do my part to help collect signatures and spread the word.

Now, I'm sure some of you are thinking ill thoughts right now.  That's fine, I know not everyone feels the same way as me on this subject.  That being said, let me just toss some ideas out there for you to chew on.  How does the marriage of two people you do not know have any bearing on your life?  According to the National Center for Health Statistics, in 2005, 2.23 million people were married.  How many of them did you know about?  You should be outraged, all those weddings really affected you 6 years ago, right?  What's that?  It had no bearing on you whatsoever?  Oh, that's right.  So, why is it that two people of the same sex bothers you? 

One argument I've heard is, what happens next?  If we allow two women to marry, what's to stop someone from marrying their dog or their truck.  They love their truck, why can't they marry their truck?  OK, besides the fact that this is just ludicrous, I'll offer you this.  When your dog, or your truck can sign their name on the marriage certificate, you feel free to marry your dog or your truck.  Until then, that is just a nonsensical argument, and I am not able to take you seriously.

Look, this issue appears to be very left vs. right.  Democrats, for the most part, want this to pass.  Republicans, for the most part, want this to fail.  Based on that, I have a question.  Republicans continuously claim that they want government to get out of their way and stop restricting them.  Then, in the same breath, want the government to ensure that marriage equality is outlawed.  So, which is it?  Less government restrictions, or just certain government restrictions?  I love the argument for smaller government.  All that means is smaller government for things you don't want.  It'll be status quo or larger government in areas you are concerned with though. 

Why do we care what ANYONE does behind closed doors?  Seems to me, this would be for each individual to decide for themselves.  If two people are happy, who am I to tell them they can't have everything that I have?  With a divorce rate of 1 out of every 2 marriages, who the hell are we to say that two loving, consenting adults can't marry?  No, let's not let that happen, but if Newt Gingrich, mister family values himself want to get married again, that's totally fine.  Come on, this is a silly argument.  We are all equal members of society, regardless of who we lay our head next to at the end of the day.  It's time that we treat each other equally. 

I'm going to close by quoting two musicians, with much different backgrounds.  I've got a very diverse music collection, and this will prove that.  My first quote is from the song "What's Going On" by Marvin Gaye.  In it, he says the following:

"You see, war is not the answer
For only love can conquer hate
You know we've got to find a way
To bring some lovin' here today"

while the other line is from "Changes" by Tupac:

"I got love for my brother, but we can never go nowhere unless we share with each other.
We gotta start makin' changes, learn to see me as a brother instead of 2 distant strangers."

See, the point of each song is to point out that there is no difference between you and me.  We need to stop demonizing people because they don't act or look like us, and remember that we are all humans, and at the end of the day, we are all brothers and sisters.  Deep down, we all want the same things, and you know what, we deserve the same things.  I'm just saying...





 

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

Crisis averted, sort of...

As you have certainly heard by now, the debt ceiling was raised on Tuesday, avoiding a potentially catastrophic situation.  Talking heads across the country have been giving their thoughts, and depending on which side of the aisle you are on, the deal was either really good or really bad.  I'm far from a pundit, or a talking head, but I've got a few thoughts on the "deal".  Here goes...

First of all, to call it a deal means that each side at the negotiating table got something they wanted, while having to give up something else they may have wanted.  With that in mind, this was NOT a deal.  Sure, President Obama won't have to go through another debt ceiling debate in his first term (assuming he gets re-elected), but to quote Speaker of the House John Boehner, "I'm pretty happy" because he got "98 percent of what he wanted" in the legislation.  In short, one side of the debate getting 98% of what it wanted seems to be about as far away from a compromise as possible, especially considering how far apart the two sides were in the negotiations. 

In other words, Democrats lost in this deal, and that would be due to President Obama completely caving in and allowing the Tea Party to dictate what would happen.  As a Democrat, this whole process sickened me.  Do we spend too much money?  You bet.  Do we bring in too little revenue?  Sure thing.  There is absolutely wasteful spending going on in Washington, but to sit here and say we only have a spending problem is absolutely untrue.  The one example that has come up a lot lately is that of General Electric.  They made $14.2 billion in profits in 2010, yet they received a $3.2 billion tax credit!  If you find nothing wrong with this picture, I don't even want to talk to you.  You are so wrong I don't even want to waste my time arguing with you.  Look, I'm not one to punish success.  However, there is no reason that me and my puny salary should have to pay taxes every year and GE, a giant corporation making billions of dollars walks away with a fat check from the government.  That is a giant problem!

Now, I know what some of you are thinking, that I want to punish success.  Not true, not even a little.  Truth is, I hope to make $14.2 billion in profits someday, and when that happens, I would fully expect to pay taxes on that profit, not get a check.  Asking those that make $250,000 and above to pay their fair share is not a lot to ask.  Again, I know what you are going to say.  The top 20% are already paying the bulk of the total tax burden while the bottom 40% pay little to no taxes.  I've heard that line from so many people over the past few weeks.  First of all, that is a complete lie.  Second of all, poor people pay less in taxes than rich people, as they should, but it's very far from zero.  Low incomes account for many that pay little to no taxes.  Senior citizens receiving SSI don't pay taxes because it is exempt from federal taxes.  Plus, the tax code provides benefits to low income earners with children (child tax credit, earned income tax credit).  Also, to say that Joe, who works at McDonalds for minimum wage, bringing home $15,000 a year should be paying more in taxes is just insane.  Joe can barely feed himself, let alone pay for housing, feed a family and pay for reliable transportation.  Meanwhile, Johnny Hedge Fund Manager is bringing home $500 million a year, and is able to pay just a small portion of that money due to loopholes.  Johnny HFM is certainly paying a higher amount than Joe, but paying more would impact him much less. 

Anyway, while I think that the Democrats lost this battle, the real loser in all of this is the American people.  We took this one on the chin.  We may have avoided a default, which would have hurt us even worse, but the cuts that have been agreed upon are going to hurt average, every day Americans like you and me.  Add to that the loss of faith we have in our elected officials, and the fact that they are really only concerned about their next election, not doing right by us, and we came out on the losing end, big time.  Good news is, in just a few months, the new Super Congress will start the next argument of what will get cut next, all while refusing to include any revenue in the argument.  Maybe Canada isn't looking so bad after all.  I'm just saying...

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Same Day Voter Registration, problem or not?

Depending on who you talk to, this is either a huge deal, or no big deal at all.  One thing is certain, it has quickly morphed from something nobody talked about to one of the most contentious laws our new Governor has signed into law.  The issue at hand is whether or not Maine citizens should be allowed to register to vote on Election Day.  Mainer's have had the ability to register at their local polls for 38 years, after the Republicans originally passed it into law.  Now, nearly four decades later, the same Republican party is trying hard to convince us all that this is the worst thing in the world.  Is it the worst thing in the world?  Heck no, not even close.  Let's look at both sides of the issue...

The majority of Republicans in both the House and Senate would tell you that there is plenty of time throughout the year to get into your local town office and register.  They would tell you that this will prevent potential voter fraud.  They will tell you that 42 others states have the same law, so they must be doing something right.  They would tell you that town employees are overwhelmed with all the work to register people on Election Day.

The majority of Democrats will claim that this law will disenfranchise a number of citizens.  They will tell you that this will reduce our overall number of participating voters, which is near the top nationally.  They will tell you that there have only been 2 documented cases of voter fraud in the last 30 years.  They will tell you that this is an unnecessary roadblock to one of our most sacred rights as citizens.

So, who should we believe?  What are we to think?  Well, here are my thoughts on the subject.  First of all, I don't really care what 42 other states are doing.  That's like telling me that 42 guys at work are wearing a dress and high heels, and that I should too.  I don't care what 42 other people, or in this case, states, are doing.  That is completely irrelevant to what Maine does.  Maine consistently has one of the highest voter turnouts, and this will have an impact on those numbers.  What we should be doing is ensuring that we make certain that each and every citizen be afforded every opportunity to cast a ballot on Election Day, not set up barriers to make it potentially more difficult. 

Some are arguing that there are about 250 business days a year in which a person can get to their town office to register.  Sure, that is absolutely true.  However, that doesn't take into consideration a multitude of stumbling blocks.  If I were to move on November 1st, it is very likely that I would not have a chance to register to vote in time.  Heck, if I moved October 29th, I may not have time.  Is this a very common problem?  Probably not, but why take away that person's right to vote simply because they moved so close to Election Day?   What if you live in a small town, and have to travel 20+ miles to and from work?  Is it possible that you are not able to make it to your town office during business hours?  Should you have to take a day off to register to vote, when you could so on election day to register? 

One thing I think we can be proud of is the low percentage of documented voter fraud we experience in Maine.  2 cases in 30 years is great.  Should we do what we can to ensure that number stays low?  Absolutely.  In fact, we just passed a law that requires citizens present a photo ID proving who they are before they are allowed to vote.  Seems to me that should prevent dead people from voting, or those pesky people that vote multiple times.  Once your name is checked off the list, you are done.  Also, there have been no complaints from town employees about this process.  They work their butts off, and have a smile on their face.  I spent a good portion of my day at my local polls for our last election in June, and our town officials do a fantastic job. 

At the end of the day, this was a solution to a problem that does not exist.  I'm not going to claim racism, like many have.  I won't go that far.  However, I will say that this is clearly an attempt to disenfranchise potential voters, and that is really too bad.  Voting is a right that we all have, and any attempt to make it more difficult is simply unnecessary.  Our voices are meant to be heard by way of the ballot box, and any attempt to silence that is undemocratic.  I don't care if you are a high school freshman, a college senior, or a senior citizen, we should be doing everything possible to encourage you to speak your voice on Election Day, not tell you that you are too lazy for not coming to the town office sooner to register.  I would like to see us be more helpful to others, not be quick to bring them down.  I would also like to see Maine stand on its own, not worry about what any other state does.  Maine is nationally known as "The Way Life Should Be", not the copycat state.  I'm just saying...